Let me be honest with you—I have not been a fan of TSA.
If you travel, you already know what I mean. Every agent seems to tell you something different. Shoes on, shoes off. Laptop out, laptop stays in. One person asks for your ID, the next one wonders why you even have it out. It feels like chaos, and I’ve stood in those lines plenty of times thinking, this is the worst.
But something changed for me recently, and I didn’t expect it to come from TSA of all places.
Here’s the situation: TSA agents in many places right now are still showing up to work… without getting paid.
That stopped me.
Because suddenly, I’m standing there mildly annoyed about my bag getting flagged, and the person helping me through the line hasn’t received a paycheck. It forced me to pause and ask a question I hadn’t considered before:
Do I still get to be frustrated right now? And more importantly—what am I actually looking at here?
Because it’s not just a job being done.
It’s a promise being kept. No paycheck. No guarantee. No applause. And yet, they show up. That’s when this became less about TSA and more about something deeper.
It made me ask myself a question I didn’t necessarily love answering: Would I do that?

Would I show up for 30 days without pay? Would I continue serving people, doing my job, handling the stress, knowing there’s no immediate reward coming?
Now, I’m not suggesting anyone ignore their responsibilities. We all have families to take care of, obligations to meet, realities we can’t pretend away. You’ve got to take care of yourself first.
But at some level, this becomes a character question. Who are you when the reward is removed?
That question stuck with me as I stood there in line, and I made a simple decision in that moment. And thankfully, the line wasn’t anything like I thought it would be!
Nothing dramatic. Nothing complicated. Just this: I’m going to be kind. I’m going to smile. I’m going to say thank you. I’m going to be patient.

Because the truth is, TSA agents don’t see a lot of that. They see people at their most rushed, most stressed, most frustrated. They’re not exactly getting the best version of humanity walking through those lines.
So what if, just for a moment, you were the exception?
I even had the thought—what if every traveler just gave them a dollar? Not as a bribe, not to skip the line, but simply as a way of saying, “I see you.” Now, that may not be realistic. It may not even be allowed.
But this is: Respect. Gratitude. Kindness. And those cost you nothing.
I never expected to learn anything meaningful from standing in a TSA line. But here we are.
I was 6 hours early for my flight, and still some good came from it.
Because the person scanning your bag, directing traffic, doing their job without a paycheck, is quietly demonstrating something powerful:
A promise doesn’t depend on conditions. It depends on you.
So the next time you’re in that line—and you feel the frustration start to creep in—pause for just a second.
And ask yourself: What’s my promise right now?
Because theirs? They’re keeping it.
Keep the promise.


10 Responses
I don’t open many emails but am always glad when I open yours —value of being human and caring.
That’s very kind of you Debra. Thank you!
I know what’s it’s like to work and not get paid for 6 weeks. You still have commitments and you still need to provide daily necessities to your family. Buying gas and trying to get to work can be a very big issue. So yes, please be kind to them now and always. Kindness cost nothing but humility and humility goes a long way.
Kindness wins certainly. Thank you!
“But at some level, this becomes a character question.”
So true. And your perspective definitely reframes how I have probably judged people working the TSA lines in the past. Definitely going to practice more patience and grace next time I travel.
Great insight, thank you!
Thank you Christian! Great to hear from you.
Wow, beautiful perspective… To recognize the grace, the humanity, the caring, in the unpaid person who sticks to his/her work commitment anyway in order to serve — YOU, Mr. and Ms. Public. Wish everyone could hear this perspective.
Thank you Andrea! I’m glad it resonated!
A great perspective, as always. New appreciation for TSA keeping their promise during difficult times. Thank you for always keeping your promise and delivering uplifting and inspiring messages!
Thank you Tina, really interesting seeing them a different way!