Axe Throwing with Royal

Royal Bullseye Axe Throwing

Last week I was the Keynote Speaker for 2 different companies who just so happened to book me at the SAME event center in the SAME city on back to back afternoons!  That is considered the greatest luck of the draw for someone in my kind of career and worth 3 exclamation points!!!

That meant I could take my best buddy, Royal, along with me for an overnighter, skip school, swim in the hotel pool, enjoy exploring the city, and have some one-on-one time with The Dude.

As we awaited the start of the 2nd event, we found a fun center where you can try AXE THROWING at a place called LUMBERJACKED – boom!

Royal was persistent in his request to try it and we paid for a half hour slot.

The instructor gave us some tips, such as best way to stand, hold the axe, and to not toss it to each other…

He then proceeded to easily flick the axe, hitting bullseye over and over again.

Simple enough.

Royal went for it, and proceeded to stick the axe over and over, getting closer to a bullseye with each attempt, gleefully squealing with delight at the simplicity of this activity.

After about 5 tries, he hit bullseye.  This 10-year old athlete is quite impressive, and succeeds easily at every athletic endeavor he tries.  As a reminder, this is the same child who finally was passed the ball in lacrosse and proceeded to score 5 goals in a row.  He’s just a natural athletic stud.

 

 

And now it was my turn to throw the axe.

I had just come away from rousing applause with an audience requesting my return in the future, then swam in the hotel pool impressing my son with my ability to hold my breath underwater longer than a whale (his words), and had a successful coaching call that morning.

He mentioned how my muscles were bigger than he remembered in my arms, shoulders and chest, and added, “Daddy, your muscles are huge!  Now all you need to do is add some abs!”  Hilarious.

Truthfully, I was feeling pretty good about myself.

And then I picked up a little axe.

As I did my best to stand correctly, hold the axe with focus and determination, it bounced off the wall 3 times in a row.  I laughed it off.

Throw 4, 5, and 6 were just as bad.  A sinking feeling of confusion hit my stomach, and then throw 7, 8, 9 brought the heat of embarrassment flushing over my neck and face.

With every toss I was dismayed to be unable to even stick the axe in the wall.

Not even close!

In fact, my son and I needed to continually jump out of the way as the axe violently hit the wall and came bounding back toward us, adding insult to near injury!

I doubled down, kept trying, throwing harder and harder, nonstop, to no avail.

10, 11, 12, 13…20, 21, 22.  What is happening?  How can I be completely incapable of sticking an axe into this stinking wall?

No one was watching us, we were alone in the cage, but the eyes of my son were on me – my little boy, who so easily could do this simple thing, and yet I couldn’t even come close.

He and I were both surprised at my lack of capacity at this basic throwing of an axe.

I had succeeded at everything we’d done on this trip, and I’m sure it appears to his little eyes that I succeed at most activities I do consistently in everyday life, but this one eluded his old man.

I finally turned to Royal, flush with disappointment in myself, and said, “Well, Daddy can’t seem to figure it out.  You made it look so easy.  Can you show me how you did it?” 

Royal confidently took the axe and instructed me how he did it.  He threw it softer, had a cadence and a rhythm, and most importantly he told me I had to smile.

Funny boy.

Bullseye, bullseye, bullseye.  I felt like Michael Phelps’ dad asking his baby boy how to do a proper breast stroke…

I stepped back up to the line and tried to imitate my son.  Throw 25, 30, 35….still, no success.

Eventually I switched to my left hand to give that a whirl, and oddly, stuck the axe for the first time that way.

After more misses than makes, I finally got the hang of it to where I could use either hand, while my ego damage returned to just a slight humiliation, as my son continued to be semi-pro at this activity, we had a nice 30 minute experience in the axe throwing cage.

I was struck by the realization that my son had seen me mostly succeed on this trip, and how I took great pride in that.  And then we entered the axe throwing cage and I totally failed.  I have zero natural axe throwing ability.  He was confused as to why I wasn’t good at it, either.

What was important to my son was that I kept trying, and to see his Dad not be great at something is important, and him being better at it than me, made him feel good about himself.

Most importantly to both of us: We were together.  Fully present.  Phones only used for capturing the moment in photos.

We had a good time even if I wasn’t very good at the activity, and he mentioned he was grateful we had this new father-son experience.

I’m grateful for a 10-year old son who can be ok having a Dad who can’t throw an axe well, but still thinks I’m worth hanging out with.  Later that afternoon I received a standing ovation at my speech, and a bonus on my check, from a grateful client for a performance I’ve worked really hard to make great.

But it will take a long while before I can throw an axe well, yet Royal will invite me to go watch him hit a bullseye anytime, and I’ll gladly tag along.

The Promise is to keep trying, keep smiling, and hang out with my son as much as humanly possible while he still wants to.

 

Royal and Daddy Axe Throwing May 2022

 

~ Jason Hewlett

Husband, Father, Writer, Mentor, Hiker

  • Speaker Hall of Fame * Award-Winning Entertainer * Promise Legacy Project Coach
  • World’s Only Keynote Speaker utilizing entertainment, musical impressions, and comedy to Create Legendary Leadership through the Power of Commitment
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8 thoughts on “Axe Throwing with Royal”

  1. This makes my heart smile!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    I say this often and it remains true from my perspective and experience of you. I so respect your authenticity and ability tp speak from your heart.

    You are a blessing to many.

  2. Beautiful post, my friend! Thank you for always sharing these inspirational moments with us.

    I’m also “not great” at axe throwing by the way… I discovered this on a weekend reunion trip my college buddies. Maybe we should go head to head and see who’s worse!? 🙂

    You’re a gift to so many! Keep sharing yourself and your stories with the world, Jason!

    1. Jeff, it’s always an honor to hear from you. And I’m glad we can share this same lack of ability, which surprises me about you as you are so good at throwing and catching things…but it’s interesting what we think we, or others, ought to be good at, but sometimes isn’t the case. We ought to go hiking next time you’re in Utah, I know I’m good at that.

  3. Another lesson to be learned here: if a future client invites you out Axe Throwing night before a keynote gig, you might want to have a plausible excuse at the ready. Better to maintain the Superman persona than let them know you’re mortal just like the rest of us.

    Great story, thanks for sharing. You’re a great dad and inspiration to many. And axe throwing is overated anyway.

  4. Worry not, Jason, you do have a future alongside your famous axe throwing son. You have advanced in life to being Royal Squire* (or is that Royal’s Squire). Henceforth, thou shalt carry Royal’s axes, sharpen them, have them at ready for contest and conquest.

    *FYI ~ “Squire” was a term in the Middle Ages for a knight’s assistant. The squire served the knight as his assistant, carried his weapons and shield into battle, etc. You are now middle aged so this Middle Ages position is right for you.

    ox

    1. Tom!!! You just gave me chills with this comment. “thou shalt carry Royal’s axes, sharpen them, have them at ready for contest and conquest.” These are some of the most profound thoughts I’ve ever read. Thank you for this. Wow, I love this. Thank you. What a gift you have.

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